I have not read Linda Hirshman’s book. I have just read about her, for example on Parenting Pop Culture. I didn’t like what I read.
Then I saw her on “The Colbert Report” (I know, I know. But honestly, is “real” news that much better?), and I did not hate everything she said.
I still disagree with her, a lot. The whole “marry down” thing makes me throw up in my mouth a little. And, while defending her “all moms must work” theory to Colbert, she said something like, “Just because women choose to stay home doesn’t make it right.”
Now, feminist isn’t the first label I usually slap on myself, so maybe I’m missing something here. But I kind of thought that the point of any civil rights movement was choice. As in, being free means having the right and the opportunity to choose your life. I suppose Hirshman would argue that women aren’t really choosing, but I can’t agree from where I stand.
Anyway, at the very end of the interview, just as I was firming up my mouth in self-righteous indignation, Colbert suggested that all moms could work “one house over,” caring for the neighbors’ kids. Hirshman responded, “Well, at least if they did that they would get Social Security.”
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